Last updated 17 July 2020
When I was 35 I made a list of 40 things I wanted to do before I was 40. It was quite a mixed list – everything from riding the wooden escalators in Macy’s in New York to making my own lemon curd. I wasn’t sure how I’d get on with it to be honest. I did wonder if once I’d bought the notebook I might let it fall by the wayside, but actually I really got into it. Having a list gave me a sense of purpose – something to focus on when I was feeling a bit lost or bored or not sure what to do on a Sunday afternoon.
I turned 40 in April and although I didn’t manage everything on the list I came pretty close. (You’ll have to go and read it to see which I missed.) In fact I enjoyed it so much that I decided to make another one.
50 things to do before I’m 50.
It’s kind of scary to think about. 40 feels like a pretty cool age, prime of lime and all that, but 50? I don’t know. 50 feels different. 50 feels OLD. Like a proper grown-up. Am I still going to be able to wear t-shirts with cats on when I’m 50? Can I still eat party rings and read Nancy Drew books? It feels like uncharted territory.
When I first wrote the 40 things before 40 post I didn’t have 40 things on the list. I wanted to get it started though, to get the ball rolling, and then I added more things to it as I thought of them. I wanted to do the same with my 50 things before 50 list. Ten years is a long time so I have plenty of time to add things as I go along. Who knows what opportunities might present themselves or what new interests I might stumble across?
This is just a starting point then, so if you have any suggestions please do let me know, the more specific the better. I find that having really specific goals gives me a much better focus and is far more satisfying to tick off.
Here’s my list of 50 things to do before I’m 50:
- Stay at Gladstone’s library
- Take a road trip in a convertible (ideally a blue roadster so I can pretend to be Nancy Drew.)
- Hang out in a 19th century Ottoman mansion and take a cruise up the Bosphorus – I had this one planned for my 42nd birthday but had to cancel because of coronavirus. Sad times.
- Stay at Burgh Island Hotel.
- Make a Baked Alaska – I actually did a version of this from a 1970s cookery book in a hollowed out pineapple.
- Become a Granny (bit out of my control but I’m adding it anyway) – Who guessed that this would be one I’d tick off so soon! Here’s where I became Slummy Single Granny.
- Stay in an old school VW camper van – I’ve done this one! The van was even green like the photo I found when I made the list.
- Drink a ‘Mermaid Tattooist’ at El Baron in Cartagena de Indias, Columbia
- Read the complete works of Jane Austen
- Have my colours done (Bridget Jones’ mum style) – Yup, done! I’m an autumn leaf.
- Take a train through New England in the fall
- Blow glass – Tick! I gave myself a migraine by staring at the bright light of the furnace and it’s quite hard to blow glass when you can’t see out of one eye but there we go, I never have to do it again.
- Go on some sort of women’s retreat
- Make crumpets from scratch – done! You can see them on Instagram here.
- Meet Reese Witherspoon. I don’t normally get silly about celebrities, (apart from when I interviewed Antonio Banderas, but honestly I didn’t realise I was flicking my hair about quite so much), but Reese is my one true celebrity love. Snaps for Reese. You never know, maybe she has a Google alert for her name and will see this and invite me to tea.
- Have an underground net adventure (this)
- Cruise the Norwegian fjords
- Go to the Chelsea Flower Show
- Go on an exotic food cookery course
- Have a boudoir style photoshoot done – done! In fact I enjoyed it so much I’ve done it twice now and wouldn’t put it past myself to do it a third time to be honest. Turns out I am a massive show off who loves taking her clothes off. Who knew? (Me.)
- Visit the Vent Haven Museum in Kentucky, the ‘world’s only museum dedicated to ventriloquism’.
- Turn a piano into a cocktail bar (might need to develop some DIY skills for this one)
- Ride the steepest passenger railway in the world. (It’s here.)
- Carve a spoon with Barn. Years ago I cut this out of the Guardian weekend magazine because I love this approach to life and I’ve had it on my fridge ever since. Turns out that ‘Barn the Spoon’ is now a bit of a celeb and has written a book and runs spoon carving workshops.
- Operate a lock (the canal kind, not just a door.)
- See penguins in Antartica
- Make my own sushi – all done. It’s not really hard, I’m not sure why I thought it warranted being on the same list as ‘see penguins in Antartica’.
- Look out onto Dealey Plaza from the sixth floor of the old book depository
- See inside Buckingham Palace
- Read a Mills and Boon – I read more than one! Here’s how I surprised myself with a Mills & Boon Regency trilogy. Turns out I’m a bit of a romantic after all. Who knew?
- Visit every country in Europe (I didn’t realise when I added this one quite how many countries there are in Europe, but I do have ten years and I’ve done 14 of them already.)
- Play all three courses at Hastings mini golf, the ‘spiritual home of crazy golf’ – YES! I did this.
- Complete 100 escape rooms
- See a play at the Globe Theatre
- Drive the Northumberland 250