Whether you are looking for ways to bring some passion back into your sex life with a long-term partner or are trying to think of sexy ways to spice up an evening, there are always new pleasures out there yet to be explored. Creating a bedroom bucket list is a great way to think about what you want to try out under the sheets and open up a conversation about any fantasies you would like to explore, giving you some things to look forward to when you head into the bedroom.
At the end of the day, injecting some extra fun into the bedroom is only going to bring you and your partner closer than ever as you experience new things and try different ways of making each other feel great. If you don’t know where to start, here are some fun ideas:
- Introduce sex toys
From simpler toys such as vibrators, cock rings, and dildos to the more kinky toys such as bondage whips, anal play, BDSM, and roleplay aids, the world of sex toys offers something for everyone. Being designed to please, you can experience new sensations that aren’t possible with your bodies alone so you can stimulate those hard to reach spots. Whether you’ve given them a go in the past or have never ventured into the world of sex toys, there’s endless fun to be had and once you start experimenting with toys, you will never look back and can continually find new ways to switch up your sex life.
- Add a competitive element
If you’ve found yourself using the exact same positions every time you have sex or are finding yourself with a lower sex drive, it’s time to plan some more fun ways to connect with your partner and spice things up. The more build up to sex you have, the more you will be able to not keep your hands off each other, so maximise foreplay in a unique way and add a competitive element. Strip poker is a great place to start, gradually losing items of clothing one piece at a time. To really drive them crazy, introduce sexy forfeits or rewards along the way to tease each other and build towards a big finish, collapsing into bed for a great night’s sleep.
- Try somewhere new
Add an element of risk by trying sex in new locations around the house such as the sofa, kitchen counters, or the shower to make you try out new positions and get creative. If you want to take your creativity one step further, head outdoors and find some hidden areas to get down and dirty in and switch up your scenery. Of course, keep it legal, but finding a secluded spot to park up at in your car can be a huge turn on. Although you need to keep it legal and find those safe spots, having sex in a new place is a great way to get you out of your regular routine and add some excitement.